Sunday, 15 June 2025

Two weeks in . . .

Look, there really isn’t that much that I can tell you. It’s just over a fortnight since I broke my shoulder, but my appointment at the fracture clinic isn’t until tomorrow. I’ll be honest with you, I don’t want to start talking to work about going back until after I’ve had the appointment but I am really anxious to get back and start working again. What a difference a couple of years makes.

So, June 15th, then. My birthday, as it happens. Both Courtney Cox and Michael Laudrup were also born on 15/6/64, although as far as I know neither Mrs. Cox nor Fru Laudrup were in the same ward of Chiswick Maternity Hospital as Mrs. Clark. It is also the anniversaries of both the signing of Magna Carta and the 2007 Mastermind Grand Final. And Father’s Day. Father’s Day. Hmm. I will be honest, I did not know such a thing existed when I was little, until my friend Bill told me his dad was also born on the 15th June, and so when his birthday fell on a Sunday Bill, being of a pragmatic and practical nature, would only need to get one card and one present. Back then in the early 70s it never seemed like as much of a deal as the big production umber that was Mother’s Day.

I’ll be honest, I did do a cursory search into the origins of this celebration, and I found very little. What there is seems to concur that the celebration was unknown prior to World War Two, and took quite a long time to gain traction afterwards. Nothing actually said that it was an invention of the greetings card companies but it certainly has nothing like the venerable lineage of Mother’s Day. Both my Nan and Mum insisted on calling Mother’s Day Mothering Sunday, despite neither of them being religious or churchgoers – the two are not always the same thing. Mothering Sunday was the religious festival whose mantle was assumed by the secular Mother’s Day in the early 20th century. Mothering Sunday always took place on the fourth Sunday in Lent and was an official day of respite from the Lenten fast. Certainly sounds like a good idea. The purpose of the celebration was to honour one’s mother church, that is, the church in which one was baptised. Over the years this extended to honouring the Virgin Mary and then all mothers.

Well, as I said it is my birthday as well. 61. You know, I spent so many years wishing I was 60 so I could take the money and run from teaching that when I got there this time last year I just wanted to stay 60. Well, that was never going to happen. But I am still living in the moment and enjoying pretty much every second of it, shoulder notwithstanding.